For most couples, conflict of some kind is one of the major factors that go into the decision to divorce. You may no longer be able to communicate effectively, you may have differing views on your future, parenting, finances, or you may have conflict over a breach of trust in your marriage. Many couples begin the divorce process with significant stress and conflict and when you go through the traditional divorce process, this conflict can increase significantly.
Divorce mediation actually allows you to reduce the conflict present between you and your ex during the divorce process, putting you in a better position emotionally and for your future. Divorce mediation focuses on finding common ground and ways to compromise as you make important decisions about parenting time (ie. custody), equitably dividing your assets, debts and property and even when you are considering whether or not spousal maintenance and/or child support is warranted in your case. When you tackle these issues in a court battle, every decision point is a fight rather than a negotiation. Every part of the process becomes a win/lose proposition, and, in many cases, everyone loses, including your kids.
Using Mediation to Resolve Issues in your Divorce
The approach of a divorce mediator can set the tone for a positive and productive relationship after your divorce is final. This is a huge benefit, as it is impossible to be able to resolve everything at the time of your separation/divorce. As your kids age and your situations change, you will have to revisit your divorce agreement. Having the experience of mediation and knowing that you do have the power to resolve any issues that come up between you and your ex can be an incredible resource as time goes by. Mediation can be used at any time during and after divorce to resolve conflict, make decisions and engage in productive communication strategies. When you have been through a long and difficult court battle and the conflict level increases, it can make it even more difficult to resolve issues after the divorce is final.
Benefits of Divorce Mediation
Johnson Mediation specializes in helping families through the divorce process with less stress and less conflict. We understand that divorce is an emotional time and can be difficult for every member of your family. Mediation can be a highly effective tool to navigate the process, resolve differences and reduce conflict so that you and your family can move forward with your lives. For more information about our mediation services, call Johnson Mediation at 952-401-7599.
